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How to be Happy

Key Findings from Positive Psychology on the Science of Happiness

Happiness is one of the most universal desires that drives much of what we do and the choices we make. Yet despite it being so important to so many of us, it can feel elusive and confusing. Luckily the relatively new field of positive psychology, or the study of happiness, contentment and wellbeing, is here to help. 

Below are some key findings from research, practical ways to improve happiness, and relevant statistics to illustrate the impact of these practices.

1. Happiness is More Than Pleasure

Happiness consists of three main components: positive emotions, engagement in activities, and meaning in life. Research shows that people with high life satisfaction typically score high in all three areas. In fact, a 2019 World Happiness Report revealed that meaningful engagement in activities was a significant predictor of happiness in countries with high life satisfaction.

2. Strong Relationships Are Key

Strong social connections are the biggest predictors of happiness. Harvard’s 75-year Study of Adult Development found that people with close relationships are healthier and happier, with better longevity. In contrast, those who are socially isolated have a 50% increased risk of early death, comparable to the impact of smoking or obesity.

3. Money Matters Less Than You Think

After basic needs are met, money has a diminishing impact on happiness. Studies show that happiness plateaus around an income of $75,000 per year in the U.S., beyond which additional income does not significantly improve emotional well-being.

4. Gratitude Boosts Well-Being

Practicing gratitude has a significant effect on mood and life satisfaction. In a study by Emmons and McCullough, participants who kept a gratitude journal reported a 25% increase in happiness, felt more optimistic, and experienced fewer physical ailments over a 10-week period.

5. Experiences Bring More Joy Than Possessions

Research indicates that spending on experiences—such as travel, dining out, or shared activities—brings more lasting happiness than material goods. A 2014 study found that people who spent money on experiences were 69% more satisfied with their purchases compared to those who spent money on material items.

6. Meaning and Purpose Matter

Having a sense of meaning in life is crucial for long-term well-being. Viktor Frankl’s research and work on logotherapy emphasized that people with a sense of purpose are better equipped to handle adversity and stress, leading to higher life satisfaction. Individuals who view their work or life pursuits as meaningful are 2.5 times more likely to be happy.

7. Mindfulness and Flow Promote Happiness

Mindfulness—being present and focused—has been shown to reduce stress and improve emotional regulation. People who practice mindfulness regularly report a 10-20% increase in happiness. Achieving flow, the state of full immersion in an activity (i.e. the feeling of losing yourself or track of time whilst in an activity), is also linked to high levels of satisfaction and productivity. People who frequently experience flow report 7-8 times more satisfaction with life.

8. Kindness Is Contagious

Acts of kindness increase happiness for both the giver and receiver. A study by Dunn et al. found that individuals who spent money on others experienced greater happiness than those who spent money on themselves. Even small acts of kindness, such as complimenting a stranger, can lead to up to a 41% increase in happiness.

9. Optimism and Resilience Build Strength

Optimism has been linked to higher life satisfaction and better physical health. Optimistic people are 30% less likely to suffer from heart disease and tend to live longer. Resilience—bouncing back from challenges—allows individuals to maintain a positive outlook even in difficult times, further enhancing long-term happiness.

Conclusion

Happiness can be cultivated through intentional actions like building relationships, practicing gratitude, seeking meaningful experiences, and acts of kindness. With research-backed strategies, individuals can take control of their well-being and improve overall life satisfaction.

I hope you can find one or two things in this list that are a fit for you and worth applying intentional effort towards. We all, including whomever may be reading this, deserve a little more happiness in this at times stressful life.

This article was created by Daniel McMillan, M.Ed., R. Psych. with the help of Chat GBT. Daniel McMillan is a psychologist and director of Assured Psychology based in Calgary, Alberta, Canada. He is also the author of the children’s book Badger and Turtle Face the Storm. Daniel hopes to help as many people as possible to live a meaningful and fulfilling life.

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